Resolutions
Posted on Dec 29, 2025 by Pastor Jealaine Marple
It’s that time of year again. Many struggled through the holidays and now there is a demand that we enter the new year by doing everything better. As if the pressure wasn’t already enough. I honestly hate New Year’s resolutions. Last year, I did make one but promised I wouldn’t beat myself up if I didn’t accomplish it. My goal was to read 52 books in a year (one a week) and I thought this was a pretty audacious goal. I won’t tell you how many books I read, but once I figured out how to get audio books from Libby, there was no stopping me.
In his Small Catechism, Martin Luther asks what it means to be baptized and answers, "It means that the old Adam in us should be drowned by daily contrition and repentance and that a new person should daily emerge and arise to live before God."
What does this mean for us? It is a reminder that we should remember our baptisms daily. It’s like a new day resolution. It’s easy to do as you wash your face, step in the shower, or even brush your teeth. As the water touches your face, make the sign of the cross. Recall that you have been marked with the sign of the cross and sealed by the Holy Spirit forever. There isn’t a specific date you need to start over. You have the opportunity to start over daily if you need to.
But, if the temptation is just too great and you can’t but help yourself and desire to make resolutions — make them attainable. Maybe think about a new month resolution that is easy. In January, send a card to a friend. In February, clean out one drawer. In March, read through one book of the Bible (Romans is my favorite). Whatever it is, make it easy. Making resolutions like this reminds me of people who make a to-do list and the first thing on the list is “make to-do list.” A sense of accomplishment isn’t a bad thing. But, our identity is in Christ — not what we do or do not accomplish.
If I were to make a resolution (or two) it would be to continue doing things I’m already doing because I know it works for me and in some ways, it makes me a better human. I will continue to see my therapist (something I recommend to all who are able). I will continue to be sober. I will continue to read (or listen) to as many books as I can get my hands on. I will do my best to say “yes” to my kiddo as often as possible. And I will never pass up the opportunity to love a dog.
Remember, beloved, no resolution will make God love you more. You are already loved beyond all your wildest dreams. Remember your baptisms. Remember you are loved. Remember, we get a fresh new start every day — not just January 1.
Peace,
Pastor J